Villains Book saves guy from Findom addiction?
Published: Mon, 06/03/19
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I'm part of an addiction forum (long story) and one section of it is about sex addiction. One guy in there is at his wits end because he is really struggling with Findom and regularly gives away his last bit of money to a group of dommes. I really don't understand why he does this, and neither does he. He is deep trouble and it consumes his life. Myself and some other therapists have told him to get some local professional help, he needs it.
I also suggested he read your villains book, to start to take care of himself and start to take these dommes off their pedestals. He wrote back to me saying I was the second person to recommend this book to him and he was definitely going to read it now.
I thought you might find this very amusing. Your writing had helped me in the past, so this is me just giving something hopefully useful back.
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For context:
The “nucleus” that makes the Villains books all work is the idea of having a Mission - and putting that on a pedestal, and not a woman, a job, a guru, a client, entertainment, a politician, validation from others, or anything else of this earth. I certainly did not invent this concept, as it’s been something many great shakers & movers in every industry, field, profession, and business have had in common. But one of the submitted questions in my recently-ended "eat-a-fan" contest (whoever asked the best question for an upcoming venture I am doing gets a speaking part & gets eaten by a monster in the novel I am currently writing, plus a pile of other num-nums...winner will be announced soon...) was:
“Ben what is YOUR Mission?”
My answer:
One piece of my overall Mission is doing my small part to prevent Western Civilization from collapsing. This is a thread woven throughout all of my novels, daily emails, videos, programs, public speaking trainings, and even my info products... in sometimes obvious, and sometimes not-so-obvious ways. And helping men seize their balls back from those wishing to exploit and/or deplete their resources, time, energy, skills, talents, potential, and freedom is a big aspect of doing my part.
Thus, I want as many guys who've lost their way to read it as possible.
Then start implementing it in their lives.
And then, paying it forward to someone else.
Speaking of the Villains books - part 3 is coming soon to wrap up the trilogy.
To check the other two out in the meantime, go here:
http://www.VillainsBook.com
Ben Settle