Words of wily wisdom for the women in my Horde
Published: Fri, 01/03/20
“Ben, you're probably the wrong person to ask... I think you might have something interesting to say, though. What advice do you have for a woman in business? One like me who doesn't find your ways or words offensive. And who doesn't mind if that means putting up with "sexist" behaviour now and then from various douchebags along the way...Who is willing to even use that shit to her advantage, as it presents itself. Any words of wisdom for a wily lady Settle-head?”
Before I dispense my words of non-wisdom, a caveat:
She is correct in as much as I am not really the one to ask.
All I can say about this is, chicks have a much finer line to toe than guys do.
Go too far one way, and people want to take advantage of you, and not take you seriously. Go to far the other way, and they write you off as a harpy.
Related:
I have mentioned many times my Villains books are written to men, and not women.
But, that doesn’t mean women can’t use the info.
In some cases, they can (and several have) to become far more successful, build a better business, have more peace of mind, and the list goes on. But, at the same time, it won’t do jack for their dating or love lives — and may even contribute to “pricing” themselves out of the dating market in some cases, with there being fewer men they are attracted to afterwards.
There are many reasons for this.
And, one day, I will go into exquisite detail about why this is.
In the meantime?
I will leave it to Villain books fan Heather Ann Havenwood to explain the pros and cons of dames using my diabolical ways.
Here you be:
http://www.VillainsBook.com/dames
Ben Settle
P.S. Since Amazon doesn’t put a link to the books on the same page as the above video review, here is the direct link to the Villains books should you wish to partake:
http://www.VillainsBook.com