Why arguing with chicks is good for the soul
Published: Tue, 09/20/16
Been dating her for the last month or so, she's completely laid back, zero drama (so far, chicks be chicks…), a writer, lots of fun, easy to get along with, etc. She is still on probation, of course. But she’s hanging in there like a champ so far despite elBenbo’s brash ways.
Still, I like to rattle the cages of chicks I date.
I like to give them options (as the late comedian Patrice O’Neal used to say) for thinking differently because, frankly, pretty girls are hardly ever challenged. Guys just agree with their horse shyt 99% of the time because they want to get laid or “be liked” and are afraid of disagreeing with them.
elBenbo is the opposite.
I like to mix it up and banter with them.
Frankly, even if they are RIGHT, I will argue and make a chick's opinion sound silly:
GIRL: The moon is beautiful tonight.
ME: No it’s not, it looks like something I just crapped out, here’s why…
It’s just my way…
Anyway, she says some cliche media sound byte about Trump.
I ask “why do you think that?”
She couldn’t answer.
Several minutes of me asking “why do you say that?” and not a single answer other than some talking point you see on flakebook each day not rooted in any kind of facts. Something along the lines of “oh he hates immigrants.” Or “oh he hates black people.” Or pick any other "Trump is the devil" talking point.
And so on, and so forth.
Anyway, I kind of identify with Trump in a way.
I’ve read his books and biography, and studied his persuasion methods.
And, there are people who misquote or can’t figure out *context* who do the same to Yours Unruly (not as nasty or on as grand a scale obviously, but it’s there, people forward me these things all the time). I can rattle off a dozen reasons to not like or vote for Trump without even having to think about it. But if you’re just going to mindlessly quote what the talking heads and loser social justice warriors say, without doing your homework, then you're going to sound like a dingbat to those of us who think deeper than a Facebook meme.
There are many *legitimate* reasons to despise these politicians.
No need to make any up...
Anyway, do with this info what ye will.
By the way:
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I won’t say what this bonus is, exactly.
(If I did, there’d be too many losers who will subscribe *just* to get the bonus.)
But, ye olde *serious* subscribers will benefit like crazy from it.
Subscribe here today before it goes to the printer:
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Ben Settle