elBenbo's Villainous ways are reducing the divorce rate?
Published: Thu, 08/02/18
A little while back, “Email Players” subscriber Richard Emmons responded to one of my YouTube videos about the insidious “mindset cancer” that is neediness. And, he said something extremely important any man who wants others to give them something (money, time, romance, votes, whatever it is…) should tattoo on the back of their hands so they see it every single time they sit down and write an email.
Anyway, here is what Richard said:
“Someone can be 99.5% anti-needy but the .5% can be deadly.”
Very true.
And to illustrate, he talked about how he was keen on a certain marketing coach’s services. But, that coach made the mistake of saying something needy about money, which is pretty much the worst thing you can do if you want to be influential and persuasive.
To which Richard told me:
“When anyone admits to needing money you can be sure they won’t get any of mine.”
Cold?
No, just reality.
Neediness is the #1 killer of persuasion.
Which is probably why Richard also quipped how it applies just as much to marriages, too, and that by teaching my minions to eliminate neediness from their marketing I may ultimately be helping lower the divorce rate...
It’s also a recurring theme in my Villains book.
A book that, incidentally, recently got a testimonial from the great Richard Armstrong:
(One of my all-time favorite copywriters)
“I've been overdue in telling you how much I enjoyed your Villains book. Really great stuff. A lot of wisdom packed into about 30 minutes of reading. My only regret is that I didn't get a chance to read it when I was 25 instead of 65. I might've made more money in my life (and gotten more dates when I was single, too)!”
To check this book out (it's short, easily read in one sitting), go here:
http://www.VillainsBook.com
Ben Settle
P.S. I finished the sequel and am going to launch it the first weekend of 2019. And, to bribe people into buying it, I'll be giving almost 3 dozen videos to those who buy during the launch.
Does that seem like a long wait?
Good.
Because one of the most powerful secrets in my Persuasion Secrets of the World's Most Charismatic & Influential Villains book at the link above is Patience.
A trait that can move mountains if you seek, adopt, and utilize it.
You're welcome...