Chicks who are helplessly repulsed by me
Published: Sat, 11/03/18
The day after the event, we all went to a winery. And “Email Players” subscriber, fire-breathing feminist, card-carrying Trump hater, and brilliant A-list copywriter (with a list of controls longer than the Clinton machine death count...) Kim Krause Schwalm said:
(Paraphrased, based on memory)
“Ben, people sometimes accuse you of being a misogynist and sexist, but there are a lot of girls here to see you at Wine Villains. You obviously don’t hate women, you want to help women.”
My (couldn't resist) reply?
I don’t want to help *women*.
I want to help people.
Women just need the most help…
Anyway, here’s the point:
I have found that most chicks up in this business are helplessly repulsed by my crotchety ways. But, the small number who aren't, are incredibly loyal, and some of the best customers I have... who implement, profit handsomely from, and run with the information I teach them.
And they are this way (I believe) because:
1. I don’t put them on a pedestal
2. I don’t try to charm them
(If anything, I try to repel people, but that’s another email…)
3. If they're mucking up I tell them what they don’t want to hear, instead of going out of my way to supplicate to them (like practically every man in their lives does) and not try to hurt their feelings — something the Facebook attention seekers, drama queens, and amusingly insecure “I give zero fugks!” chest-pounding chicks can’t stand.
Basically, I treat 'em like I treat guys.
Anyway, why should you care about any of this?
Probably you shouldn’t.
But maybe someone needed to hear it…
This is also an attitude and mindset you get naturally by applying the information inside my "Persuasion Secrets Of The World's Most Charismatic & Influential Villains" book.
If you:
1. Go through it carefully (you can read it in less than an hour)
2. Apply the info right away
3. Make it a part of your life
You will never put people on pedestals.
You will probably be less "liked", but far more respected.
And, you will likely see a dramatic change in the way people respond to your advertising.
To check it out, go here:
http://www.VillainsBook.com
Ben Settle